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		<description><![CDATA[In our last blog we dealt with your personal encounter with our Lord and how the Holy Spirit moves you into a relationship that gives you a positive eternal life guarantee to heaven. Once we accept that guarantee the Lord expects you to work for Him. No matter what vocation you have you are expected [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3><strong>In our last blog we dealt with your personal encounter with our Lord and how the Holy Spirit moves you into a relationship that gives you a positive eternal life guarantee to heaven. </strong></h3>
<h3><strong>Once we accept that guarantee the Lord expects you to work for Him. </strong></h3>
<h5>No matter what vocation you have you are expected to be a <strong><em>full-time </em></strong>Christian in that vocation.  The message we send to others around us will determine the<strong><em> effectiveness</em></strong> of your full-time Christian experience.</h5>
<p>Words are powerful tools; they can build up or tear down.  You and I can not carelessly say whatever we want and then expect a quick apology to heal all wounds.  Even words spoken in haste can deeply hurt someone.</p>
<p>Of course, not all messages we send are verbal.  Facial expressions and body language can communicate acceptance or rejection, like or dislike, love or hate.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.redd.bcmd.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/good-job.png"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-343" title="good job" src="http://www.redd.bcmd.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/good-job.png" alt="" width="209" height="185" /></a>We should also consider whether we are making the most of every opportunity to encourage those around us.  We can be tremendous instruments of God&#8217;s blessing to others <strong><em>if we will closely monitor what we communicate.</em></strong></p>
<p>The apostle Paul instructed believers in Ephesians 4:29 in regard to words.</p>
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<li> <em>&#8220;Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment so it will give grace to those who hear.&#8221; </em></li>
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<h3>That does not just mean that we should avoid cursing, but gossiping as well.  <em>What we say should bless others</em>.</h3>
<h5>Many times we have been victims of the power of words.  Parents, teachers, other authority figures, and friends have encouraged or discouraged us through their words.</h5>
<ul>
<li>The tongue has influenced nations; Hitler destroyed nations with his lies while Churchill energized England with his words.</li>
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<p>How effective we are in living the Christian life also involves <strong>involving</strong> the examples of Christ-like living and how joyful and appreciative are we in what He has given us in life.</p>
<p>When students in school would ask me if I was rich I would reply,</p>
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<li>&#8220;Yes, I have a God who loves me, a Savior that died for me, and Holy Spirit that guides me, a family that loves me, and many church people who are my friends.</li>
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<h3>If I would react with a negative response, why would anyone want to belong to Christ?</h3>
<h5>We, of course in living the Christ-like life, need to obey the Christ-like principles as given in His Word, but we need to convey to others how much we really care.</h5>
<p>Each person must have a sense of belonging, worthiness, and competency.  When you accept Christ as Lord these three emotions fulfill those basic needs.</p>
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<li>Through our belonging to God, <strong>we feel acceptance.</strong></li>
<li>Through the worthiness evident by Christ&#8217;s sacrifice on the cross, <strong>we feel loved.</strong></li>
<li>Through the competence made possible by the indwelling of the Holy Spirit <strong>we feel secure.</strong></li>
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<p>Why not <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>speak like</em></span>, <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>live like</em></span>, and <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>look like</em></span> our God has <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>satisfied</em></span> those basic needs.  Then you can pass on the message to others.</p>
<h3>Through a personal relationship with Jesus <strong><em>anyone</em></strong> can find freedom from the negative messages they have endured.</h3>
<h5>Look for opportunities to build people up by your words and your style of living.  I leave you with the thought of what we should do as we wait upon the Lord:</h5>
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<li>Continue to do what you believe to be the right thing, trusting in the Holy Spirit (John 16:13)</li>
<li>Listen for guidance God may be giving you through your pastor or other church leaders.  (Acts 17:11)</li>
<li>Pray and seek God&#8217;s guidance.  let Him help you think outside the box. (Isaiah 55:8)</li>
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<p>Our next get together we shall deal with, &#8220;A Positive Side During Economic Troubles.&#8221;</p>
<p><em><a href="http://www.redd.bcmd.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Lou.png"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-340" title="Lou" src="http://www.redd.bcmd.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Lou.png" alt="" width="155" height="192" /></a>Lou</em></p>
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