Fri 23 Sep 2011

Finding our Evangelistic Voice

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I have been away from the diner for a long time, and it is great to see you all again after my vacation at Howard Hospital and Holy Cross Rehabilitation Center.

Our last discussion involved transformation of a person as he gives himself totally to the Father and His Son.

We covered the concern that some of us have that we have become lost in the world’s culture and therefore have lost our voice.

We learned that some are willing to send money for global ministries, but when it comes to glocal (local) ministries some are afraid that they will be politically incorrect if they speak of our Master to someone.

Personally, I want to be spiritually correct.

The questions are not how many people come to the 9:30 service as opposed to the 11:00 service or is the music the type we appreciate, but rather how can we find our evangelistic voice?

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Finding our Evangelistic Voice

You see, Jesus proclaimed that we are to be “salt” and “light” in our world and I fear that some Christians are flickering lights.  We need to be salt in our character before we can be effective as light.

The image of salt and light speaks of the eagerness to get out the message of Jesus Christ.  Transformation means we are to recapture the salt and light concept that Jesus lived.  We need to mirror Jesus in how we live.  The question is how does the church (people) fit into glocal evangelism?

Is the church the only true vessel for the kingdom of God?

No, but it is the local practical expression of it and it is the most underutilized vehicle for expanding the kingdom.

Instead of attempting to change society by more religious workers, we ought to focus on utilizing and transforming people who are already on the inside sitting in our pews.  If we are to truly be kingdom centered and truly transformed, we would not be fearful of sharing our faith within a perverse world.  We are to have faith not fear.  We need to overhaul our evangelistic life.

Can following Jesus ever be private?

No!  We as the Christian community must make a connection with the outside world.  For the most part community means different people.  The world itself means common unity.

I think the church today has confused community with socialization.  We come together for worship and let ourselves be a community.  The idea to me is to take that message and proclaim it to the surrounding community.

Connection is crucial

Connection is crucial to using your evangelistic voice in your glocal church (your Jerusalem).   Hebrews 12:1-3 indicates that the gospel proclamation is personal not private; it is a picture of connection.  Connection helps us with our call as Christians and that reflects the kingdom.

Glocal missionaries cause Glocal Impact

Glocal impact is where we challenge every member to serve the community locally and glocally.

Therefore the church is to be ready to serve God as the glocal missionary in order to have a glocal impact.  The Church (community unity) can have everyone be part of the action.

Is Transformation Possible?

Transformation is possible because we are in an interactive relationship with God,  accountable with other believers, and responding to ministry opportunities.

If we were all transformed, perhaps the church could turn the world right side up.

Next time we shall look at Renewed and Revived.

In His

Lou

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Tue 21 Jun 2011

Transformation

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Transformation:  More Than Turning Over a New Leaf

Glad we are back in the diner where it is nice and cool.

At the conclusion of our last get together, I had left us with the thought of how the Boomer and the Builder generations could have an impact on tomorrow’s church. One thought is being “transformational in the church.”

Transformational = Transformed

In January, I along with other pastors, studied a book and attended a conference entitled “Transformational Church.”  I found both the book and conference interesting, and in my opinion very thought provoking.

I began to think about churches that I had belonged to and ones that I had pastored.  I thought of how many of them were not transformational and now sadly realized that in turn we/people were not transformed.

Stepping Up our Glocal Efforts

We need to find our voice as stated by Bob Roberts Jr. in his book Transformation;  “Not only, in my estimation, do we need to remain global in our evangelism but we need to step up our glocal efforts.”

What would our churches look like if the entire body of people like me would be mobilized and touch the people we come in contact with the message of Christ?

So how did we lose the evangelistic voice that we once had?


First:  We became lost in modern thought within the world.

We began to think that individuality, reason, science, and optimism would build a church rapidly.  True, the church did produced results and momentum,which in return caused results to reign supreme.  The church then began to look at the results and quoted God in creation, “It is good.”

The truth of the matter was we needed to examine the results that we were getting.

In other words, the church unwittingly merged with the same operating principles of governments and corporations but with only different products.

Secondly: The church became lost in consumerism.

We became lost in consumerism as the church began to think that the services that it provided had to be entertaining in order to make the gospel palatable to all.

This may have had increased the numbers of attendance, but did it increase the spiritual level of the church?

The church may have increased in size, buildings, budget, and yet we may not have succeeded in transforming lives.

Thirdly: We became lost in mega-mania.

Surely there are other factors that have affected the church, but I believe that in our church culture we think size proves success.

If you look at the Great Awakenings in America, the evangelistic movement did not, for the most part, consist of massive crusades but rather through small churches that touched their communities.

I feel that many churches today have lost their voice for their communities and according to Bob Roberts Jr:  “The question is not should churches grow, but why should they grow?”

I wished I had more time here at the diner, but let me leave you with some thoughts that I gleamed from my study of the “Transformational Church,” by Ed Stetzer and Thom S. Rainer.

  1. The apostle Paul had an evangelistic voice.  He did not travel to places on his missionary journeys – he traveled to people.
  2. Real transformation or change starts with a new life not a new leaf.
  3. Real transformation or change is a process not a destination.  It is an encounter to mirror Jesus.
  4. Real transformation or change is letting go and grabbing hold.

Let us think about going glocal as well as global by letting ourselves be transformational and regain our evangelistic voice.

Have a great week and next time we will have new menus with new selections at the diner.

Lou

 

 

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Fri 13 May 2011

Fixing A New Generation Gap

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Fixing a new generation gap by doing things with or through the Encore Generation.

As we sit at our table in Redd’s Diner, we want to look at some basic facts as we review some statistics in regard to boomers.

The first of the “baby boom” generation are now turning 65 at the rate of 8,000 a day.

They are the healthiest, best educated and wealthiest in the nation’s history.

As we celebrate their vitality we discover that they are a generation that;

  • Loves the Beatles and Springsteen.
  • Crusaded to end a war and stop the spread of “nukes.”
  • Powered a new technology explosion.
  • Fueled the feminist movement.
  • Joined the battle for civil rights.

However, according to Jim Toedtman, Editor of the AARP Bulletin, there are challenges facing these Boomers who have saved too little, eaten too much and borrowed beyond their means.

It is not a fight among generations; it is a family working through the process.

In my estimation the problems that our society is experiencing were not caused by any single generation, nor can any single generation solve the problem.  It is not a fight among generations; it is a family working through the process.

According to a leading real estate firm, due to the 2010 real estate cost, more home buyers were looking for multi-generational homes.  With that statistic in mind, my thoughts in regard to ministry with or through the Encore Generation becomes my focus.

“Wake up son or daughter, I am still able to be erect each day.”

A ministry to older adults implies that older adults are passive receivers in the relationship.

There is the thought that you give me something because I am too old to contribute anything in ministry.  My response, “wake up son or daughter I am still able to be erect each day.”

A ministry with or through older adults is a ministry that all generations do together.  That way everyone in the family of God is serving together.

“Just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve.”

What churches fail to recognize in many cases is the potential to grow a church by growing the number of senior adults (one of the largest unchurched people groups) who comprise over 20% of our population.

Christian Boomers Characteristics

As we leave this session we shall look at some characteristics evident in Boomers commitment to ministry discovered and provided to us in a recent LifeWay “think-tank.”

  1. Active Christian boomers love the Lord and their church.  They want to continue to be involved, lead and/or serve.
  2. They see the church, para-church ministries as platforms for investing their skills and expertise in service that will make a difference.
  3. Their dollars will follow their heart.  They may tend to do more designated giving for ministries that become close to their interests.
  4. Conflict in the church could cause them to leave permanently.
  5. Their attendance may be sporadic, interrupted by impromptu activities with grandchildren, short trips, vacations or illness.

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At our next time together I look forward in speaking to you more about these characteristics, as well as,  see what impact tomorrow’s church can make on the Boomers,and the Builders generation (which is my generation).

Go and serve, Lou

 

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Wed 12 Jan 2011

Reboot For 2011

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When we left the big table at Lou Redd’s diner, I gave you some things to think about for today’s session around the table.  I left you with the idea of doing things with or through older adults.

I would like for you to hold onto that thought until the next time we meet mainly because I would like to take this time for us to focus upon ourselves as we hit the new year head on.

New Year’s Resolutions?  How about rebooting yourselves instead?

I never do New Year’s resolutions; instead, I like to think of it as an opportunity to reboot.   And just like you have to reboot your computer ever so often, you must reboot yourself at least once each year.  In other words, you must evaluate or re-evaluate yourselves periodically.

Let’s do a 2011 Reboot

Beginning with me let us look at some things we can do to reboot as we begin 2011.

  • Realize that church is not a noun; it is a verb.  Do something to improve the thing you have been complaining about.
  • Break the Bible into manageable portions for reading purposes.  Do not try to read it all in one month.  Our goal is to let God speak to us thought His Word, not speed reading.
  • Select a Bible study workbook that fits into your everyday work and family schedule.  Select one that fits your personality and lifestyle.  If you choose one that is a five-day-a-week study with daily homework, you will need to work at pacing your progress.
  • Choose the right time that you can spend in prayer with our Lord.  It may be morning or night or at several intervals during the day.
  • Take the time to take several families in your church, or church community under your care.   You  do not need to take on the whole world.

Stop and get your bearings

Before we leave this topic of rebooting, we all need to stop and get our bearings.  Beginning with Lou Redd we all need to ask the following questions prayerfully in the presence of God:

  • What is one thing I could do this year to increase my enjoyment of God?
  • What is the single most important thing I can do to improve the quality of my family life this year?
  • In which spiritual area of my life do I want to make progress in this year, and what will I do about it?
  • What is the single biggest time waster in my life, and what will I do about it?
  • What is the most helpful new way I can help my church?
  • For whose salvation will I pray most fervently this year?
  • What single thing that I plan this year will matter in 10 years? In eternity?

So let us evaluate our lives, make plans and goals, and live 2011 with biblical diligence.

It is now time for us to leave the diner, and go back to work thinking about doing things with and through older adults.

Until the next time,

Lou

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Thu 9 Dec 2010

The New Old; Wake Up Church

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Welcome back to Redd’s Diner as we find ourselves sitting around the big table discussing issues involving, “Savvy Seniors”which are part of the “Encore Generation.”

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Seniors are living longer and doing more in their later years than some people give them credit for.

Even in my own church some members are questioning why we are spending more for youth programs than we are for golden agers, and as I have stated before in my blog musings, seniors make up the larger percentage of our country’s population.  Even in our evangelistic outlook, seniors comprise one of the largest unchurched groups.

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Society, in general, fails to look at seniors as individuals with skills and knowledge based upon a wealth of experience and history.

Today, let us look at a group that church executives have identified as the “new old.”  They are the boomers that bring much to the church, but often are “unnoticed.”

When you look at baby boomers such as my daughters (early 50′s), terms such as old, elderly, senior, golden-agers, etc. do not seem to fit or describe boomers.  Many of these boomers, who were involved in youth ministry, are now entering their fifth and sixth decades of life.

So you may be asking what changes do they bring?

  • Baby Boomers are approaching aging in a different way than the preceding generations  They have no desire to spend their retirement years sitting in a rocking chair or playing shuffleboard.
  • Just as when they were young, they are interested in changing the world.
  • They do not want to get old and are doing everything they can to stay healthy and look young.
  • Even if they continue to work, they work at jobs where they can make a difference in society.

The church has bought into the myth that younger is better.

They believe that a growing church has a lot of young people, and if you have too many older adults that must mean that you are a dying church.

Instead, we have the potential to grow a church by increasing the number of older adults because millions of adults over the age of 50 are not Christians.

If we will be intentional about reaching these people for Christ, our churches will grow, especially when you consider that there are 78 million boomers, many of whom are not connected to the church.

As you leave the diner, think about the distinction of doing things with or through older adults rather than seeing them as just older adults.

I also want you to do something that is an option.  Look up Dr. Amy Hanson’s website www.amyhanson.org. She is a specialist in gerontology.  Her book, “Baby Boomer and Beyond: Tapping The Ministry Talents and Passions of Adults over 50,“  has provided much of the material for this blog.

Until next time, blessings.

Lou

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Thu 28 Oct 2010

The World We Live In: How Do We Choose to Deal With It?

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When we last met together on the written page, I promised that we would look at how diverse our world’s population has become.  We will do that; after saying, “Wow I never thought about that before.”

What is the next step that can be the most humanitarian thing you have ever done?

  • Would you develop or ignite a personal vision to help someone, or some group, in order to be “salt and light” as God’s Word refers?
  • Would you develop a behavior to impact others?

According to the Mitsubishi Research Institute the diversity of our world can be assessed in several ways.  If we shrink the world’s population to a village of 100 people.  It would look like the following:

  • 57 Asians
  • 21 Europeans
  • 14 from the Western Hemisphere
  • 8 Africans

Of these 100 villagers:

  • 52 are female, 48 are male
  • 70 are non-white, 30 are white
  • 70 are non-christian, 30 are christian
  • 89 are heterosexual, 11 are homosexual
  • 59% of the wealth is held by 6 people
  • 80% live in substandard housing
  • 70% are unable to read
  • 50% suffer from malnutrition
  • 1 is near death, 1 is near birth
  • 1 has a college education
  • 1 owns a computer

Learning to live and embracing all that entails in a diverse culture is the heart of our survival.

What does it mean to you?

As you look at the list that you just read, what stands out that makes you want to do something about the problem?  As a servant of my Lord, I want to reach those and bring them to Christ.

At a Billy Hybels’ Summit in 2007, he introduced me to a stirring thought, “Holy Discontent.”  From that moment on I looked at the evil in the world and vow to fight it with more vigor.  However, I am not talking about evil as the only problem that we can help solve.

Let me use a personal example; I entertain in senior centers, churches, as well as, other venues.  Generally, I pick the style of music in regard to Gospel, 50′s, 60′s and so forth.  One of the senior centers that I entertain in has a large number of Asian participants.  Instead of doing comedy and ballads, I select a more upbeat music program in order to create audience participation.

What does this tell you?

Sometimes in order to be ministry effective we must get out of our comfort zone.  We might have to volunteer in a homeless shelter, or we might be convicted to learn a language in order to meet a need.  Dealing with diversity does not mean ignoring it; it means you are meeting a need head on with love for all people.

A pastor once told me that my age group does not keep pace with their younger counterparts.  I told him to ask a geezer like me to do something and it gets done.

We are not far behind in the electronic race.

According to Verizon FIOS:

  • Older adults 65-74 access the Internet at rates higher than many expected with 58% stating they regularly log on.
  • 28% of those over 65 discuss Internet health care information with their doctors, compared with 33%  of those under 65.

This short piece of information speaks of information necessary for me to listen to.

  1. It indicates that all age groups can be wired for the future.
  2. Each age group can have a desire for its individual members to know about world problems and do something about them.

All ages must consider the following and then identify one or more problems.  Then our “Holy Discontent”  will move us to do something.

  • What about the poor?
  • Who will care for the sick and dying?
  • Will anyone visit the prisoners?
  • Who will clothe the naked?
  • Who will take in the orphans?
  • Who will give water to the thirsty, and community to the outcast?

Remember Popeye and his famous statement, “That’s all I can stands, and I can’t stands no more?”

When all ages in our churches and communities recognize what is going on around us and we are stirred with “Holy Discontent,” we will become Popeye people loving our neighbors as ourselves.

The next time we have lunch together at Redd’s Diner (the written gathering) we shall look at the new old and their problems.

In His service

Lou

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Fri 6 Aug 2010

Public Service

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In our last blog we spoke about the message we send to others.  I said, “that as we lift our heads and our attitudes in a more positive manner, our actions become positive as well.”

During past tough economic times, according to a March 7th article in  Parade Magazine, there was a decrease in volunteering.  However, today there is a compassion boom of people helping others.

An exclusive new Parade Poll of 1008 respondents demonstrate that our nation is in the midst of a volunteering boom. Thus, this blog will deal with how and why so many Americans are working to improve our communities and the world.

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Public service has become more than a phrase or a school requirement in our country.

According to CEO, Patrick Corvington of the Federal Corporation for National and Community Service, public service has now become a way of life.

  • Many people who are out of work are now volunteering to stay connected in their communities, as well as, help keep their job skills sharp.

Corvington also explains that 94% respondents believed that it is important to be personally involved in a course that they believe in and 90% said they are working hard to teach their children the importance of activism.

Parents are leading by example.

Parents are leading by example, talking to their children about issues and causes, and urging them to follow role models who are working for positive change.

It seems that compassion counts more than ever.

One of the respondents polled is an attorney who volunteers at an elder-care facility and takes his young daughter with him.  He teaches her that those out of the public view need attention.

What would you do if given a $100,000?

One of the questions asked  the 1008 Americans in the Parade poll was, what would they do if given $100,000 to donate to charity?  I have listed the top ten responses:

  1. Food and shelter for the needy
  2. Disease research
  3. Disaster relief
  4. Animal welfare
  5. Youth programs
  6. Poverty relief/job assistance
  7. Education
  8. My religious charity
  9. Global environment
  10. Public health

It seems that a lot of people have been reshaped for service as the “mindset of Christ” becomes the focus instead of our “me” focus.

As we have looked briefly at the why people are becoming involved in more volunteerism, let us now look at the how aspect of the respondents.

Making a difference.

Almost all of the respondents (98%) have engaged in at least one activity to make a difference.

  • 91% to the hungry.
  • 30% helped organize a fund raising event.
  • 32% participated in service projects such as clean up at a local beach, park, or public area.
  • 24% volunteers at a soup kitchen or food bank.

What do you think is responsible for this great change in our country today in regard to this boom in volunteering?

In my study I have found it is not what but who.

In today’s population, based upon the Parade Poll, there are three distinct types of Americans who are driving the change in our communities and country.

“Yeppies, Rapid Responders, and The Mission Minded”

Just as this 76 year old was glad to see  how the Boomers changed some of the ways we do church, I am now glad to meet the new groups which are the “Yeppies,” (Young, Engaged Problem Solvers), “Rapid Responders,” and “The Mission Minded.”

  • “Yeppies” rely on social media and socializing to fuel their activism and volunteerism.  They have faith that individuals can solve social problems.  They are open to a variety of causes.
  • “Rapid Responders” are not out to improve the entire world.  Their focus is more personal as their causes tend to stem from specific problems such as health or a neighborhood issue.  Responders often organize community events to raise awareness or money for the causes.
  • “The Mission-Minded” consist of older Americans for the most part who are motivated by their faith.  To them, supporting basic needs like food and shelter is a faith duty.  They feel that the world’s problems can be fixed by faith groups.

There you have it in a few paragraphs, but I assure you, I shall study these groups in my future research.

Next time, we shall look at our diverse population.

Lou

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Tue 1 Jun 2010

The Messages We Send

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In our last blog we dealt with your personal encounter with our Lord and how the Holy Spirit moves you into a relationship that gives you a positive eternal life guarantee to heaven.

Once we accept that guarantee the Lord expects you to work for Him.

No matter what vocation you have you are expected to be a full-time Christian in that vocation.  The message we send to others around us will determine the effectiveness of your full-time Christian experience.

Words are powerful tools; they can build up or tear down.  You and I can not carelessly say whatever we want and then expect a quick apology to heal all wounds.  Even words spoken in haste can deeply hurt someone.

Of course, not all messages we send are verbal.  Facial expressions and body language can communicate acceptance or rejection, like or dislike, love or hate.

We should also consider whether we are making the most of every opportunity to encourage those around us.  We can be tremendous instruments of God’s blessing to others if we will closely monitor what we communicate.

The apostle Paul instructed believers in Ephesians 4:29 in regard to words.

  • “Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment so it will give grace to those who hear.”

That does not just mean that we should avoid cursing, but gossiping as well.  What we say should bless others.

Many times we have been victims of the power of words.  Parents, teachers, other authority figures, and friends have encouraged or discouraged us through their words.
  • The tongue has influenced nations; Hitler destroyed nations with his lies while Churchill energized England with his words.

How effective we are in living the Christian life also involves involving the examples of Christ-like living and how joyful and appreciative are we in what He has given us in life.

When students in school would ask me if I was rich I would reply,

  • “Yes, I have a God who loves me, a Savior that died for me, and Holy Spirit that guides me, a family that loves me, and many church people who are my friends.

If I would react with a negative response, why would anyone want to belong to Christ?

We, of course in living the Christ-like life, need to obey the Christ-like principles as given in His Word, but we need to convey to others how much we really care.

Each person must have a sense of belonging, worthiness, and competency.  When you accept Christ as Lord these three emotions fulfill those basic needs.

  1. Through our belonging to God, we feel acceptance.
  2. Through the worthiness evident by Christ’s sacrifice on the cross, we feel loved.
  3. Through the competence made possible by the indwelling of the Holy Spirit we feel secure.

Why not speak like, live like, and look like our God has satisfied those basic needs.  Then you can pass on the message to others.

Through a personal relationship with Jesus anyone can find freedom from the negative messages they have endured.

Look for opportunities to build people up by your words and your style of living.  I leave you with the thought of what we should do as we wait upon the Lord:
  1. Continue to do what you believe to be the right thing, trusting in the Holy Spirit (John 16:13)
  2. Listen for guidance God may be giving you through your pastor or other church leaders.  (Acts 17:11)
  3. Pray and seek God’s guidance.  let Him help you think outside the box. (Isaiah 55:8)

Our next get together we shall deal with, “A Positive Side During Economic Troubles.”

Lou

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Thu 4 Mar 2010

The Message and How We Get It

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As we journey together through this blog, you have learned some things about living as a senior, or about the new “senior group” which are baby boomers.

We also have covered the problems which may lead to suicide in the lives of seniors, as well as, covered 12 giants that interrupt the lives of many people.

As I promised in the last blog, we are going to look at the messages that we send to others in regard to our Christian walk and talk.

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The problem in our life is the “problem we make” of life.

When problems hit us, we need to covey a spirit that these are not “problems”.   We need to take the high road and consider them to be challenges or opportunities for “I Am” (God) and you to face together.

There is always power in the presence of “I Am”.  After all, a setback is a set up for a come-back.

The real problem is that life is not always the dream we hope it would be.  In fact, you may feel devastated, angry, and at times hopeless.  Bad stuff is everywhere, breakups, car accidents, crime, difficult people, heath issues etc…

We inadvertently may fall under the assumption that the latest TV star or neighbor has a better life than we do, free and void of “problems”.  In reality, they are not any more insulated or free from problems then we are.

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Have you ever cried out into the void of life and waited for someone to make sense of it all?

The good news is that there is someone who hears your cries and can make sense of it all.  That someone, along with His son Jesus, can lift you to that high road and walk along with you through it.  Not just for the duration of the trial but for eternity.

God the Father, His Son Jesus, and The Holy Spirit have been wanting a relationship with you since you were born.  Once you have accepted the fact that Christ is The Way, The Truth, and The Life the next step is to be a living “Christian witness” and give it (your witness) to the world.

Living and giving is the way that we send that witness to a lost world.

Let us look at Christian living according to God’s Word which is demonstrated in Colossians 3.

In this chapter Paul provided the Colossian church with guidelines for proper conduct.  Paul needed to remind the Colossians “whom” they served.

He also shows us in Colossians 3:1-11  that once you have accepted Jesus Christ as Savior you will have a deep personal relationship with God.  Which will transform every area of  your new life in Christ.

Colossians 3:12-17 demonstrates our new life in Christ as we involve ourselves with others.

As you now stand before God, He seeks to “perfect” you.  We use the word “perfect” as a verb which indicates that you are a work in progress.

God sees you as one who has been made perfect through Jesus Christ, the one who is perfect.

We are to send a message to others that we have a transformed life that is Godly.

We need to joyfully adopt Godly characteristics in our lives as presented to us in Colossians 3:12-17.  The world will see a message of joy in our lives as we serve our Lord.  Many in this world are “reading you” as their only Bible.

Now that you know how to get the right message that needs to be conveyed to a lost world.  We will look at the right message you need to send yourself in order to convince others.  We will address this in our next blog session.

Until then, journey well.

Lou

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Fri 15 Jan 2010

Facing Giants that Begin as Concerns Pt 2

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When we last talked in regard to giants, we left the last six of our “battles” with the fact that giants can be conquered IF we dwell in God’s Word.

bible2Anger, resentment, doubt, procrastination, failure, and jealousy are giants in our life.  They can all be conquered by our God in his Word.

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ANGER is a giant that manifests itself through us in society today.

In many cases it is an uncontrollable emotion that causes harm to people whether physically or emotionally.  Sometimes it causes more harm to the individual who directs his/her anger toward another individual.

  • Ephesians 4:26a Paul said, “Be angry and do not sin”

The greatest example of this thought has to be Jesus in the temple.  He never was angry about His stuff, but He was angry about the worship of God being obstructed by booths and tables.  His response was an example of sinless anger, or as we sometimes call it, “righteous indignation”.

There are some ways in dealing with anger that will help us not to be defeated by it.

  • First, do not nurse your anger.

As the apostle Paul stated in Ephesians 4, do not nurse your anger.  In other words, do not dwell on anger as it will turn into resentment which turns into bitterness.  If we release it our Lord the giant will be defeated.

  • Secondly, do not converse about your anger to another person.

That causes corrupt communication to come out of your mouth.  If you talk about your anger with other person, then you keep anger fresh in your mind.

  • Thirdly, Paul says in Romans 12 that you should heap coals of fire upon that person’s head.  In other words be extra nice to that person.

RESENTMENT is a situation that many people find themselves in today.

When people find themselves in a state of a high degree of bitterness and many times it was caused by resentment.

If you look at resentment according to Paul in 1 Corinthians 13, love thinks no evil.

  • One way to look at this is that God does not keep records of our sin if we are in Christ.

Perhaps, an example of resentment would be if a person wronged you in some way you would keep bringing that wrong up over and over again.  The only person that suffers psychologically and physically is the one that harbors resentment.

  • We pay a high price if we choose to possess resentment in our lives.

Basically there are five ways among others that we can live free from resentment if we want to live free.

  1. Think about it, is it worth the obsession?
  2. Write it out in a journal as to why we are resentful.
  3. Work it out; in my position as an assistant principal if something became a problem I worked it out by rehearsing music.
  4. Pray; talk it out with Jesus.
  5. Get over yourself and give it up.

Your life free from the giant of resentment will be healthier.

doubtDOUBT can either be a positive motivation in our life in order to make us dig deep to prove a truth, OR it can make us very cynical.

Very often, if we are alone for a period of time, we start to feel so isolated that doubts begin to rise within us.  Many of our doubts linger because we have just kept them inside. We need to redefine our faith if a doubt has cast a cloud over a belief.

In order to fight the giant of doubt, we have to do several things to force Satan to back off.

  1. Admit your doubts personally to yourself or a trusted friend.
  2. Be clear about your doubts and where did you doubters come from.  Turn your doubts into items of prayer.
  3. God waits to hear from you.
  4. Be willing to read writers that are Christian writers an order to find answers.

We must be willing to seek and find our answers.

PROCRASTINATION is a dangerous giant because we fail to act on what we know.

Many times we have good reasons for our inaction’s, but other time it is just laziness.  I feel that Satan’s favorite word is tomorrow.  Whether it is your salvation or service after salvation, Satan wants you to put it off.

Not only does procrastination rob you of opportunity for service, it also robs you of the opportunity to be successful.  Do no put off doing anything that needs to be done today.  You have no guarantee about tomorrow.

FAILURE can be a private or it can be made public when one is a nationally known individual.

  • Life is filled with failure, whether presidential, corporate, or personal.

The problem exists when one does not know how to handle failure.  He or she may not be able to recover and many fall into depression.

If one is able to learn how to profit from failure, he or she can move on to accomplishment.  In my estimation, one should “fail” forward which allows them to benefit from looking ahead in life.

David Jeremiah wrote the following, which originally came from a Wall Street Journal advertisement,

  • “You failed many times.  Although you may not remember, you fell down the first time you tried to walk”.  Did you hit the ball the first time you swung the bat?  Heavy hitters who hit the most home runs strike out a lot. R.H. Macy failed seven times before his store in NY caught on.  You should worry more about the chances you miss if you don’t try!

Paul in 2 Corinthians 4, and I urge you to read this chapter, has covered what you need to face when it comes to failure. He states that you need to face the reality, reason, and results of failure.

Perhaps the greatest way to defeat the giant of failure is to strive to received Jesus final words, “Well done thou good and faithful servant”.

JEALOUSY when it is self-centered is a giant to be avoided.  It is a sin that eats at the insides of a person.

This last giant on my list can erode the peace and joy that is gained by conquering all the other giants.

  • Jealousy can be a problem in the areas of possessions and wealth.

God has blessed many Christians with wealth, and many have learned to give gratitude to God.  However, generally speaking,  jealousy and envy have an easy time of causing trouble among the wealthy.

  • Power is something that causes problems as power invites power.

In Numbers 12, Miriam and Aaron were jealous of Moses’ power.  In the Gospels and Acts we read that the Jewish leaders were jealous of Jesus’ power and influence.

Power circles can be a problem in the church.  Two characteristics of jealousy, in a large number of cases, is that it destroys others, as well as, ourselves.

Like many of the other giants we have discussed, jealousy is a personal choice.

  • We need to face jealousy and renounce it as a sin.

We also need to reaffirm God’s goodness to you and take an inventory of God’s blessings to you.

Just as I sited scripture in the first six giants in Facing Giants Pt 1, I am going to cite scripture involving these last six.

ANGER: Proverbs 15:1, Romans 12:19, Ephesians 4:31

RESENTMENT: 1 Corinthians 13:5, Ephesians 4:32, Hebrews 12:15

DOUBT: Isaiah 26:3, Isaiah 59:1, Hebrews 11:1

PROCRASTINATION: Psalm 90:12, Proverbs 27:1, 2 Corinthians 6:23

FAILURE: Psalm 37:24, Habakkuk 3:19, Philippians 1:6

JEALOUSY: Proverbs 10:22, Proverbs 14:30, 1 Peter 2:1-1

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Next time we shall look at, “Messages to Others”

God Bless!

Lou

Lou

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